I had that (puppy blues)with a puppy but he turned out to be the best dog ever ❤ he just passed at 15 years old . I’m glad I went through the hard puppy stage without giving up.
Thank you for being so real. This is how I felt when we got our puppy, also. We had had older dogs, but it had been many years since we had a puppy, and I forgot what an upheaval to our life it would be! Sleep deprivation, potty training, and chewing/destructive behavior. Our “puppy” is 10 years old now, and she is SO special to our family. I’m really glad we stuck out the hard times, because we love her so much. Also, this is why I don’t think people should “gift” a puppy to someone else without knowing they want the responsibility. It is a major life change!
Love this REAL video!!! I am a brand new, (never had a dog in my life) owner. I have had him less than a week and woke up today thinking I can’t do this, and my friend reminded me about this video that she sent me. Thank you so much for this. Also, my dog’s name is Dash too!!! 🐶
I'm so grateful for your video that I have tears in my eyes because my husband is so anxious that I am getting close to adopting a puppy. He's never had a dog, partly because he has such terrible allergies, and I've always had a dog.
We couldn't get 1 at first because I couldn't find a small hypoallergenic one but God has brought me a couple of options to look at and as it gets closer, my husband is getting more and more anxious. I so want to reassure him that this will be a welcome change in our lives. I have always had a dog and I miss being a puppy parent so much!!! I'm so very grateful for you walking me through your experience. I've called my mom who might come and spend the night with her dogs, if she is willing; it's like having a new baby at home. I think this will help me get through it and I think this is an important part of planning, because I sometimes can get anxious or overwhelmed, and I know it will help my husband feel more comfortable about bringing in a new family member. ❤😊Thank you so much.
thank you so much for this video – i just got a 10 month old pup and am going thru the "puppy blues". it's been very overwhelming but i have faith we will get thru it!
i’m just now finding this video and i’m laying down crying because i just bought my puppy yesterday and i feel like i just made the biggest mistake this video helped ease my nerves a lil bit
I’m here right now with my 13 week old toy poodle. I’ve had her nearly 2 weeks now and im definitely feeling some regret… “What have I done!? I can’t do this!” That’s exactly how I’m feeling…May I know how you are doing now? And if you still have him?
This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now. I don’t have the puppy yet, I pick her up in a few weeks, but I’m already having second thoughts. My maltipoo passed away a few months ago at the age of 11. I got her when she was 3 months. So It’s been a really long time since I’ve dealt with new puppy anxiety and responsibilities. I want the new puppy, but I’m so freaking anxious 😬
Thank you. This is a real video. I just got a puppy and this is my second one the first one i didn't make it til less than a week and i feel like i am getting overwhelmed with her and trying to figure out the best way to take care of her cause right now i feel like i have no patience and i am trying so hard to take care of her. She's very sweet and she loves to play. Thank you that i am not the only one for your time of making this video.
This video is so relatable! I also have a maltipoo and he’s the worst eater 😭 hopefully you can help me with this. His breeder was giving him royal canin but when I got him he hardly wanted to eat it and he’s been eating his poop 🤦🏻♀️ I’ve tried everything to make him eat but he hates the dog food and only likes chicken and this freeze dried food I got him. I’m scared he’s not eating enough. Anyone has had this experience that can help? (I’ve tried chicken broth, putting chicken in his food, treats, and baby food in his dog food) Also he’s 6 months old I got him two months ago , any and all advice is appreciated:)
I so appreciate you talking about this! I had a wonderful dog growing up, and she passed away shortly after I started college. It's been 10 years and I feel like I want another dog, but I have an anxiety disorder (scrupulosity OCD). I remember when I took care of my brother's new puppy for a day and how overwhelmed I felt, and I started backpedaling. I want to make a conscientious choice to do right by the dog and myself. Thanks for reminding me that a big part of that feeling could just be due to new-puppy anxiety, but that it should pass if I can make it through the first little bit. Now I can chat with my therapist about my worries beforehand and get some tips before getting a new dog, so I'm prepared! 🙂
Yep same here. I brought my puppy home and the first night was awful!! I was thinking to myself what have I got myself into I don't think I'm gonna be able to do this just kind of panicked actually. But I've been working with her and we seem to be communicating and everything seems to be coming around so I am so happy that I have a new best friend.
This is literally why I don’t want to get a dog just yet. I feel like I won’t be the best owner and get all of the same thoughts you had. But after this video I feel more confident about getting a dog. Thank you so much for this.
Oh my God… I’m so happy I stumbled across your video. This is day three with a Havanese puppy, and I am feeling everything you felt right down to sitting in the TJ Maxx parking lot. I’m going to get those drops and that spray. I’m just feeling so overwhelmed with the added responsibility and thanking of all of the things that I can’t do anymore
Thank you for such a transparent video! If you had to do night one over again would you put the crate in the livingroom first? Do you still have your puppy?
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I had that (puppy blues)with a puppy but he turned out to be the best dog ever ❤ he just passed at 15 years old . I’m glad I went through the hard puppy stage without giving up.
That is the cutest puppy ever!
Thank you for being so real. This is how I felt when we got our puppy, also. We had had older dogs, but it had been many years since we had a puppy, and I forgot what an upheaval to our life it would be! Sleep deprivation, potty training, and chewing/destructive behavior. Our “puppy” is 10 years old now, and she is SO special to our family. I’m really glad we stuck out the hard times, because we love her so much. Also, this is why I don’t think people should “gift” a puppy to someone else without knowing they want the responsibility. It is a major life change!
Love this REAL video!!! I am a brand new, (never had a dog in my life) owner. I have had him less than a week and woke up today thinking I can’t do this, and my friend reminded me about this video that she sent me. Thank you so much for this. Also, my dog’s name is Dash too!!! 🐶
I am getting a puppy today so this really helps
Do you still have him. Hes so cute
I'm so grateful for your video that I have tears in my eyes because my husband is so anxious that I am getting close to adopting a puppy. He's never had a dog, partly because he has such terrible allergies, and I've always had a dog.
We couldn't get 1 at first because I couldn't find a small hypoallergenic one but God has brought me a couple of options to look at and as it gets closer, my husband is getting more and more anxious. I so want to reassure him that this will be a welcome change in our lives. I have always had a dog and I miss being a puppy parent so much!!! I'm so very grateful for you walking me through your experience. I've called my mom who might come and spend the night with her dogs, if she is willing; it's like having a new baby at home. I think this will help me get through it and I think this is an important part of planning, because I sometimes can get anxious or overwhelmed, and I know it will help my husband feel more comfortable about bringing in a new family member. ❤😊Thank you so much.
thank you so much for this video – i just got a 10 month old pup and am going thru the "puppy blues". it's been very overwhelming but i have faith we will get thru it!
could you please share his breeder details? he is toooo cute ❤
Great video!! Very helpful thank you!
i’m just now finding this video and i’m laying down crying because i just bought my puppy yesterday and i feel like i just made the biggest mistake this video helped ease my nerves a lil bit
Thank you!! God bless you!!
Here I am with my Betta.
Thank you for this video…
I’m here right now with my 13 week old toy poodle. I’ve had her nearly 2 weeks now and im definitely feeling some regret… “What have I done!? I can’t do this!” That’s exactly how I’m feeling…May I know how you are doing now? And if you still have him?
I definitely needed to see this before I get my puppy! I’m super excited but I was getting SO nervous. This helps so much ❤ thank you!
This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now. I don’t have the puppy yet, I pick her up in a few weeks, but I’m already having second thoughts. My maltipoo passed away a few months ago at the age of 11. I got her when she was 3 months. So It’s been a really long time since I’ve dealt with new puppy anxiety and responsibilities. I want the new puppy, but I’m so freaking anxious 😬
Thank you. This is a real video. I just got a puppy and this is my second one the first one i didn't make it til less than a week and i feel like i am getting overwhelmed with her and trying to figure out the best way to take care of her cause right now i feel like i have no patience and i am trying so hard to take care of her. She's very sweet and she loves to play. Thank you that i am not the only one for your time of making this video.
Literally having the same thoughts rn, so much freaking work
This video is so relatable! I also have a maltipoo and he’s the worst eater 😭 hopefully you can help me with this. His breeder was giving him royal canin but when I got him he hardly wanted to eat it and he’s been eating his poop 🤦🏻♀️ I’ve tried everything to make him eat but he hates the dog food and only likes chicken and this freeze dried food I got him. I’m scared he’s not eating enough. Anyone has had this experience that can help? (I’ve tried chicken broth, putting chicken in his food, treats, and baby food in his dog food)
Also he’s 6 months old I got him two months ago , any and all advice is appreciated:)
Thanks so much for this honest video. I love it
❤omg I’m going through that right now… I’m so thankful for your honesty. Because I was trying to get rid of him and I love him 😍
Anyone works full time evening shift and own a puppy? I’m think of getting a puppy and needs tips
I so appreciate you talking about this! I had a wonderful dog growing up, and she passed away shortly after I started college. It's been 10 years and I feel like I want another dog, but I have an anxiety disorder (scrupulosity OCD). I remember when I took care of my brother's new puppy for a day and how overwhelmed I felt, and I started backpedaling. I want to make a conscientious choice to do right by the dog and myself. Thanks for reminding me that a big part of that feeling could just be due to new-puppy anxiety, but that it should pass if I can make it through the first little bit. Now I can chat with my therapist about my worries beforehand and get some tips before getting a new dog, so I'm prepared! 🙂
Yep same here. I brought my puppy home and the first night was awful!! I was thinking to myself what have I got myself into I don't think I'm gonna be able to do this just kind of panicked actually. But I've been working with her and we seem to be communicating and everything seems to be coming around so I am so happy that I have a new best friend.
This is literally why I don’t want to get a dog just yet. I feel like I won’t be the best owner and get all of the same thoughts you had. But after this video I feel more confident about getting a dog. Thank you so much for this.
WOW, this is so important!
Oh my God… I’m so happy I stumbled across your video. This is day three with a Havanese puppy, and I am feeling everything you felt right down to sitting in the TJ Maxx parking lot. I’m going to get those drops and that spray. I’m just feeling so overwhelmed with the added responsibility and thanking of all of the things that I can’t do anymore
Do you still have your dog?
Hi help today I will pick up my new 6 month old dog help he is part pit an moltize
Do you still have the dog? Is it different as he matures?
Thank you for such a transparent video! If you had to do night one over again would you put the crate in the livingroom first? Do you still have your puppy?
All the damn dog videos on the internet —- this is the one I needed 🥹 —- everything you’re saying, I feel. It’s Day 4 for me!! Lol
thank you for making this im way in over my head 3rd day 😮
I’m going through this right now 😭😭
You know when you've found your dog. I was going to re-home him but I love him too much. I'm his emotional support animal 🥲
Thank you for making this video 🙏🏾 I’m feeling the same wayyyy. Day 1 & I have a toddler. I’m crying feeling like wait why did I do this to myself